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This article is informational only and is not legal advice. I am not a lawyer. For advice about your specific matter, consult a West Virginia probate attorney or mediator.

Detailed Answer — Step‑by‑step process to resolve an elective share dispute through mediation

1. Understand the legal context

   In West Virginia, an elective share is typically the surviving spouse’s right to claim a portion of the decedent’s estate instead of taking under the will. Heirs should first confirm whether the spouse has actually filed an election with the probate court or otherwise asserted an elective-share claim. Review the probate rules and relevant statutes on the West Virginia Code and the probate court’s procedures at the state website: https://code.wvlegislature.gov/. If the spouse has not yet filed a formal election, mediation can be used to avoid litigation or to negotiate a voluntary settlement.

2. Assemble documentation and an asset inventory

   Gather the core documents the mediator and parties will need: the will and any codicils; trust documents; death certificate; marriage certificate; deeds/titles to real and personal property; account and brokerage statements; life insurance and retirement plan beneficiary designations; recent tax returns; and a proposed inventory and valuation of assets. Accurate asset totals let everyone evaluate the potential elective share dollar value.

3. Calculate the likely elective share range

   Work with an attorney, accountant, or financial expert (or the mediator) to estimate the surviving spouse’s share under West Virginia law and to identify assets that are probate vs. non‑probate (payable-on-death accounts, jointly held property, certain trusts, retirement plan beneficiary designations). This estimate frames realistic settlement ranges.

4. Choose a mediator with probate experience

   Select a neutral mediator who knows probate and family‑property issues in West Virginia. Mediators with experience in estate disputes can spot common pitfalls (creditor claims, tax consequences, spousal allowances) and keep talks focused on practical solutions. Confirm costs, confidentiality rules, and whether the mediator will prepare a memorandum or settlement agreement for court approval.

5. Agree on scope, ground rules, and confidentiality

   Before the session, the parties should agree in writing on what the mediation will cover, who will attend, whether outside experts may participate, time limits, and confidentiality. Mediation agreements commonly state that offers made in mediation are inadmissible in later litigation to encourage candid negotiation.

6. Prepare position statements and settlement options

   Each side should prepare a concise position statement: a factual summary, legal points, and the desired outcome. Include multiple settlement options (lump sum, installments, transfer of specific property, or structured payments). Having alternatives increases chances of a deal.

7. Use the mediation session effectively

   The mediator will typically start with joint introductions and then hold private caucuses with each side. Be candid but strategic. Focus on interests (security for spouse, tax efficiency, preserving family assets) rather than only positions. Consider non‑monetary tradeoffs like relocation assistance, retention of sentimental items, or installment payments to bridge gaps.

8. Document the settlement and obtain court approval if needed

   If parties reach agreement, put it in writing. Many elective‑share settlements require submission to the probate court for approval or entry as a consent decree so the agreement is binding and enforceable against the estate. The mediator or attorneys can draft the settlement and file the necessary papers with the probate court.

9. Address tax, creditor, and administrative follow‑up

   Confirm how the settlement affects estate and income taxes and whether any creditor claims remain. Ensure distributions are handled in the order required by the court and that the estate administrator or executor has written instructions to implement the settlement.

10. If mediation fails, know the next steps

    If parties don’t settle, the surviving spouse may proceed with a formal election or file a petition in probate court. Heirs should be prepared for court timelines, discovery, and the costs of litigation. Mediation can be restarted at any time, even after litigation begins.

Timing and statutes: Elective-share deadlines and procedures vary; consult the West Virginia probate statutes and local court rules. Start mediation early—before assets are distributed—so a settlement can be implemented without undoing completed distributions. For statutes and court rules, see the West Virginia Code and the West Virginia Judiciary: https://code.wvlegislature.gov/ and https://www.courtswv.gov/.

Helpful Hints

• Start documentation now: a clear asset inventory speeds mediation.
• Use an attorney to review any proposed settlement and to ensure court approval language is correct.
• Pick a mediator skilled in probate and family disputes; their experience saves time and cost.
• Consider creative settlements: transfers of specific property, structured payments, or partial releases to limit tax or liquidity problems.
• Keep communications focused on interests and solutions, not blame—mediation rewards practical compromise.
• Confirm confidentiality rules in writing to allow candid settlement discussions without fear they’ll be used in court later.
• Account for potential creditor claims and tax consequences when proposing distributions.
• If the spouse has not filed a formal election with the probate court, a negotiated voluntary agreement can avoid formal litigation—but ensure it’s signed and, if necessary, filed with the court.
• If you expect valuation disputes (real estate, business interests), agree in advance on a neutral appraiser or expert to avoid surprise costs later.
• Keep settlement language clear about how to implement the agreement and how enforcement will work if a party fails to comply.