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This article explains what you can do in Minnesota if a relative in the priority list refuses to sign a written renunciation that would let you be appointed as the personal representative (executor/administrator). This is general information only and not legal advice. For Minnesota law on probate and appointment of a personal representative, see the Minnesota Probate Code (Minn. Stat. ch. 524): https://www.revisor.mn.gov/statutes/cite/524. For practical forms and court steps, see the Minnesota Judicial Branch probate pages: https://www.mncourts.gov/Help-Topics/Probate.aspx.
What a renunciation does
A written renunciation is a signed document in which a person who would otherwise have the first claim to appointment gives up that right. When higher-priority persons (for example, a spouse, child, parent, or sibling depending on the family) sign a renunciation and the court accepts it, the court may appoint a lower-priority person instead. A renunciation must be in the form the court accepts and is typically filed with the probate petition or presented at the hearing.
Why a refusal matters
If a person with priority (your uncle in this case) refuses to sign, the court usually gives that person priority for appointment unless the court finds a reason not to. That means you cannot rely solely on asking the court to appoint you if the higher-priority person is willing, competent, and contesting appointment. But you still have options.
Practical steps you can take
- Talk first. Explain why you want to serve, what responsibilities are involved, and how you will handle costs. A clear, calm conversation often solves misunderstandings.
- Offer alternatives that protect the uncle’s interests. For example, offer to provide regular accounting, a bond if the court requires one, or to share information about actions you take. These reassurances may persuade him to sign.
- Document the request and refusal. If the uncle refuses, make a written record (email or letter) noting the request and the refusal. A signed written declination is ideal. Keep copies of all communications.
- Consider mediation or a neutral third party. A family mediator, clergy member, or trusted neutral can reduce conflict and produce a signed renunciation or agreement.
- Use an alternative legal path if appropriate.
- If the estate is small, Minnesota law and court rules may allow you to collect assets by affidavit or use simplified procedures that avoid formal probate and appointment. Check the Minnesota Judicial Branch probate pages for small estate procedures: https://www.mncourts.gov/Help-Topics/Probate.aspx.
- If immediate action is needed to preserve assets, you can ask the court for temporary or emergency appointment of a personal representative. The court can appoint someone temporarily to protect property while the dispute resolves.
- Ask the court to appoint you despite the refusal only if you have a legal basis. The court may appoint someone other than the first in priority if that person is disqualified, incompetent, unavailable, unwilling to serve, or otherwise not a suitable fiduciary. Examples include:
- The person is incapacitated or mentally incompetent.
- The person cannot be located or properly served with notice.
- The person is disqualified under Minnesota law (for instance for cause such as criminal conviction or conflict).
- There is evidence of undue influence, fraud, or other misconduct affecting appointment rights.
To pursue this option you file a petition for appointment and present evidence to the court at a hearing. The court then decides who should serve under Minnesota probate law (Minn. Stat. ch. 524). See the Minnesota Probate Code: https://www.revisor.mn.gov/statutes/cite/524.
- Consider the county public administrator or a neutral professional. If the family cannot agree and the estate needs administration, the court may appoint a public administrator or a professional fiduciary. This can be a default solution when family members cannot or will not serve.
- Protect assets while you decide next steps. If you suspect assets are at risk (banks closing accounts, property deterioration), ask the court for temporary authority or contact institutions to place holds or alerts. Courts have procedures to preserve estate property pending final appointment.
How the court process typically works
You normally file a petition for probate or appointment with the probate court in the county where the decedent lived. The court gives notice to interested persons, including anyone in the priority list. If a higher-priority person does not renounce, the judge will consider that person’s claim unless you show a legal reason to appoint someone else. The court will hold a hearing when required and issue letters of appointment to the person it names as personal representative. For forms and procedural details, visit the Minnesota Judicial Branch probate pages: https://www.mncourts.gov/Help-Topics/Probate.aspx.
When to talk to an attorney
Consult an attorney if any of the following apply:
- There is a contested fight over appointment or allegations of wrongdoing.
- The estate has complex assets (real estate, business interests, retirement accounts, or tax exposure).
- You need to seek court intervention for incapacity, undue influence, or to compel service/notarize documents.
- You need a temporary appointment quickly to protect assets.
Helpful Hints
- Keep communication calm and documented. Save emails, texts, and notes from conversations.
- Offer written protections the court can enforce: bond, accounting, or transparency about fees and actions.
- Use a signed, notarized renunciation form if your uncle agrees to step aside. Filing the renunciation with the court speeds the process.
- If you cannot locate the uncle or he is unreachable, document your efforts to contact him. The court may accept service by alternative means if proper attempts are shown.
- Gather the decedent’s key documents before filing: death certificate, will (if any), asset list, and contact information for heirs and creditors.
- If the estate is small, check whether simplified collection procedures or affidavits can avoid formal probate or appointment.
- Consider mediation as an inexpensive way to resolve family disputes and get a signed renunciation or agreement about administration.
Disclaimer: This article provides general information about Minnesota probate procedures and is not legal advice. Laws change and every case has unique facts. For advice about a particular situation, talk with a Minnesota-licensed probate attorney.