Can I Open an Estate and Become the Personal Representative as a Mother-in-Law in Minnesota?

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Detailed Answer

Under Minnesota law, the court follows a strict priority list when appointing a personal representative (formerly called executor). This process appears in Minnesota Statutes § 524.3-203 (revisor.mn.gov/statutes/cite/524.3-203). Generally, the order is:

  1. Person named in the decedent’s will.
  2. Spouse or domestic partner.
  3. Adult children of the decedent.
  4. Parent(s) of the decedent.
  5. Siblings of the decedent.
  6. Grandchildren of the decedent.
  7. Other heirs under Minnesota’s intestacy laws.

A mother-in-law does not qualify under any of these priority categories unless the decedent’s will specifically names her as personal representative.

Example: Jane Doe dies intestate (without a will). Minnesota’s intestacy statutes (Minn. Stat. § 524.2-103, revisor.mn.gov/statutes/cite/524.2-103) identify her spouse, children, parents, siblings, and more distant blood relatives as potential heirs. Jane’s mother-in-law, however, has no statutory claim. The court will appoint from the eligible list before considering anyone outside of it.

Key points:

  • If the decedent’s will names you, you can petition to serve regardless of relationship.
  • If there’s no will (intestate), only blood relatives and the spouse have standing in priority order.
  • The court may remove or refuse an appointment for cause, but it cannot expand the priority list to include in-laws.

Helpful Hints

  • Review the decedent’s will first: a named personal representative takes priority over all others.
  • Check Minnesota Statutes § 524.3-203 for the full priority list and detailed rules.
  • Understand “interested person” status: you may still attend hearings even if you cannot serve.
  • Consider mediation: if family members dispute, mediation can resolve conflicts before court.
  • Consult a probate attorney: they can file the petition correctly and advise on standing issues.

The information on this site is for general informational purposes only, may be outdated, and is not legal advice; do not rely on it without consulting your own attorney. See full disclaimer.