Can I Open an Estate and Become the Personal Representative as a Mother-in-Law in MD?

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Detailed Answer

In Maryland, the Orphans’ Court appoints a personal representative (also known as an executor or administrator) to manage and distribute a decedent’s estate. The court follows a statutory priority list when no valid will names a personal representative. Under Md. Code, Estates & Trusts § 7-201 (link), the order of preference is:

  1. Surviving spouse
  2. Child or children
  3. Parent or parents
  4. Sibling or siblings
  5. Other next of kin as defined by statute

A mother-in-law is not included in this default preference list. Therefore, if the decedent died without a will (intestate), you cannot open the estate or serve as personal representative unless all higher-priority individuals:

  • Either consent to your appointment in writing
  • Are deceased or disqualified and no other nominees remain

If the decedent left a valid will that expressly names you as personal representative, the Orphans’ Court generally honors that nomination, even if you are a mother-in-law. To review wills and estate forms, visit the Maryland Courts website: Maryland Courts Probate Information.

Helpful Hints

  • Review the decedent’s will carefully for any nomination of a personal representative.
  • Confirm there are no surviving spouses, children, or parents with higher priority who wish to serve.
  • Obtain written waivers from higher-priority heirs if they agree you should serve.
  • File a petition in the appropriate county Orphans’ Court and attach death certificate and waivers.
  • Consult the Probate Clerk’s office for local filing fees and required forms.
  • Keep detailed records of estate assets, debts, and distributions once appointed.

The information on this site is for general informational purposes only, may be outdated, and is not legal advice; do not rely on it without consulting your own attorney. See full disclaimer.