Can a Mother-in-Law Become a Personal Representative in Oregon?

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Detailed Answer

1. Will Nomination vs. Intestate Appointment

Under Oregon law, a decedent’s will may nominate a personal representative. ORS 113.025(1) gives first priority to the person named in the will. If no will exists or the nominated person declines, the court follows a statutory order of priority for intestate estates (ORS 113.025).

2. Statutory Priority for Intestate Estates

ORS 113.025(3) lists the order:

  • Surviving spouse or registered domestic partner
  • Surviving children
  • Surviving parents
  • Surviving siblings
  • Grandchildren
  • Any other person the court deems qualified

A mother-in-law is not automatically a “surviving parent” of the decedent. Unless the decedent formally adopted your spouse (making you their legal parent), you do not fall into the parent category.

3. Appointment of Other Qualified Persons

If all individuals in the statutory priority list decline or are unavailable, ORS 113.025(3)(h) allows the court to appoint “any other person the court deems qualified.” A mother-in-law may petition under this provision, but the court will consider factors such as your relationship to the decedent, potential conflicts of interest, and the best interests of the estate’s beneficiaries.

4. Practical Steps to Seek Appointment

  • Confirm no higher-priority person is available or willing to serve.
  • File a petition for appointment as personal representative with the probate court.
  • Provide notice to all interested parties, including heirs and creditors.
  • Demonstrate your qualifications and address potential conflicts.

Helpful Hints

  • Review the decedent’s will to see if you’re expressly nominated.
  • Identify all heirs and notify them of your petition.
  • Maintain clear records to show your suitability (residence, age, and availability).
  • Consider informal family agreements before petitioning to avoid delays.
  • Consult with an Oregon probate attorney for court filings and deadlines.

The information on this site is for general informational purposes only, may be outdated, and is not legal advice; do not rely on it without consulting your own attorney. See full disclaimer.